openmarriageandcuckold

A question for all my female followers

openmarriageandcuckold:

If women could choose between a monogamous and a cuckold relationship, would the cuckold one be the relationship of choice for most women?

At first, when I admitted to her I was turned on by her flirting with other men, she just laughed… I started to make it more clear that I would be ok with her sleeping with other men, and she also pretended to not care about it. Then, our of the blue, she bluntly asked me if I was really serious about her having a sexual affair with another man—I had no idea she had even thought about it seriously until that night. She said, “Ok, really—have you considered what it would be like if I had sex with another man? Just think, your own wife committing adultery with another man, and you would be ok with it? Have you really thought this one out carefully? Do I want it, yes. Do I have men in mind, absolutely! Have men asked me to sleep with them, yes! However, I have been a good girl—but if you keep telling me you like me to do it, I just might fall into that temptation on my next business trip, and I just am not sure you could handle it—could you? What if I start to have feelings for the other men—what if I like the sex and passion more than you—then what? I get turned on thinking about this idea of yours but not confident about the unintended consequences. What if I get an STD? Heaven forbid, what if I get pregnant with the other man’s baby??? Let’s think this one through carefully sir!”

She then went to bed…yes, she had thought through the details, and it’s obvious she was intrigued enough about being a hot wife to explain her feelings about it… That is how it starts, and finally you will get to witness your cherished wife be lusted for by another man, just a few feet away from yourself in a bed. I cannot explain the rush of erotica that comes from sharing your own precious wife with another man for both of their sexual pleasure—it makes me almost proud in some way…

cuckoldinglifestyle

cuckoldinglifestyle:

Q: My wife seems too conservative and I am afraid to bring up the subject of cuckolding with her. What do you suggest?

Caroline: Be open and honest with her. Begin your new intimacy with her by sharing your desire. It may be her desire as well. Some of the most dedicated cuckold couples don’t look as though they would engage in the lifestyle. Life doesn’t get better by being afraid to improve it.

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-Questions-Revealing-intimate-lifestyles/dp/1491039574

I read some books about how to help my wife see the value of enjoying sex with other men. Over a period of six months, it slowly helped her see that this could be possible, but only after she felt that she was sexually attractive to other men. I helped this happen by taking her to local dance clubs, buying her more erotic outfits and introduced her to many men I met at the club who I knew said to me they thought my wife was hot. I sometimes brought men to our table, introduced them, and magically their personality seemed to lower her guard and let her feel comfortable to dance with them alone. Over a period of a few months, she became more open to their intimate teasing and touching. I would welcome them over to dance with me and my wife, then put my wife between us. Just with my eye contact, the other men knew I was encouraging them to take it further with my wife. After the club, I asked one of the men to a restaurant for a late night snack with us…and it led to him rubbing her feet. I made up some excuse to invite him over to our house to help advise me about something (home repair, landscaping, remodeling, etc.) and then having him rub my wife’s back on the couch…it more easily led to more intimate touching on her thighs…and the rest of the fun that comes with this =).

Dancing is basically role playing how it would be in bed with them but standing up—it helps my wife almost melt in their arms and reduce her fears of being intimate with another man. Once I see my wife kiss another man on the dance floor, I know it might lead to going home with this man inside my wife.

wifewatching3wifesharing

Question.

myhotwifedreams:

For the guys living the dream. Do you find that your wife is naughtier with another man? Like maybe she has something to prove or she wants to be sure she surpasses his expectations? I am curious.

Absolutely, she seems to not care about being as proper it seems—she gives herself up so freely — it’s probably because the other men she enjoys being shared with are more demanding—assertive. Until March, she never had tried anal sex since she said it hurt. However, with the skill and savy of a stronger man, he convinced her to try and she believed him. She looked nervous at first, but he knew how to do it, he was experienced. So, I was amazed to see her enjoy anal sex (with protection if course) while spooning with a muscular German man at a swing club in Denver—very cool.

naughty-couples
My wife regularly kisses on the lips the husband of her girlfriend when she greets him or when he leaves…  This last Sunday, we were with this couple all afternoon just for a barbecue at their house. When we were leaving, we walked out their door when my wife said she needed to tell the other man something before she forgot.   After a minute, I walked back inside their open door and saw my wife fully hugging him while they kissed very sensually in front of his wife, not just a peck…  I suddenly put 2 and 2 together realizing that my wife had already enjoyed some erotic experience with this couple when I had been out of town on business.  I knew it wasn’t just a tease since I saw his hand going down inside my wife’s pants on her bare butt as he held her tight and made out with her in front of me and his wife. I looked over to see his wife’s reaction, and she just smiled and said they when they went up to their cabin the past weekend (when I was out of town) that they developed a special relationship together.  The other wife said, “what can you do, it was meant to be I guess.”  My wife looked very happy and smiled when she looked back to her girlfriend, “can I tell him?”  My wife came over and hugged me when she said that the three of them had shared something special at their cabin and that I shouldn’t feel worried about it.  “I had sex with him in their bed at their cabin, is that ok?”  I looked at him and his eyes were a little nervous but obviously had an erection already in his jeans. “I feel a special bond with him also, like you but different.”  I couldn’t have been more turned on!!

My wife regularly kisses on the lips the husband of her girlfriend when she greets him or when he leaves… This last Sunday, we were with this couple all afternoon just for a barbecue at their house. When we were leaving, we walked out their door when my wife said she needed to tell the other man something before she forgot. After a minute, I walked back inside their open door and saw my wife fully hugging him while they kissed very sensually in front of his wife, not just a peck…
I suddenly put 2 and 2 together realizing that my wife had already enjoyed some erotic experience with this couple when I had been out of town on business. I knew it wasn’t just a tease since I saw his hand going down inside my wife’s pants on her bare butt as he held her tight and made out with her in front of me and his wife.

I looked over to see his wife’s reaction, and she just smiled and said they when they went up to their cabin the past weekend (when I was out of town) that they developed a special relationship together. The other wife said, “what can you do, it was meant to be I guess.” My wife looked very happy and smiled when she looked back to her girlfriend, “can I tell him?” My wife came over and hugged me when she said that the three of them had shared something special at their cabin and that I shouldn’t feel worried about it. “I had sex with him in their bed at their cabin, is that ok?” I looked at him and his eyes were a little nervous but obviously had an erection already in his jeans. “I feel a special bond with him also, like you but different.” I couldn’t have been more turned on!!

ourhotwifefantasy
ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

You’ve never been boring, but this is so much more exciting than anything we’ve ever done.

This picture is so real to me as a husband with a very flirty wife.  When she is in the same room as a man she is attracted to, I can tell quickly and enjoy seeing her find ways to be near him, laugh with him, then want to take him to another area to talk (outside in the dark or a coat closet, etc.).  As soon as I see them walking away together, I know what my wife’s intentions are and how easily the man will give in with her “magic” she has with her tempting, playful and sensual eyes and breasts.  She usually waves at me and says, “We’ll be back in a minute.”  One time, she had not come back for over an hour and I started to get worried.  I walked around the hotel lobby and surrounding hallways.  Finally I heard a noise so I walked closer to the sound behind a door where I discovered my wife sitting on the carpet near a couch.  I saw the man’s hand underneath my wife’s skirt, rubbing in circles. I quietly left them alone, but listened from the hallway.   I walked away to avoid messing up her moment.   She had seen me, so she text’d me that she would be staying overnight upstairs in his suite, and not to worry.  Yes, this is truly an interesting marriage—but it turns me on so much!I never met this man, never will—but I thank him for apparently fucking my wife until she couldn’t walk and fell asleep in his room (her words).

ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

You’ve never been boring, but this is so much more exciting than anything we’ve ever done.

This picture is so real to me as a husband with a very flirty wife. When she is in the same room as a man she is attracted to, I can tell quickly and enjoy seeing her find ways to be near him, laugh with him, then want to take him to another area to talk (outside in the dark or a coat closet, etc.). As soon as I see them walking away together, I know what my wife’s intentions are and how easily the man will give in with her “magic” she has with her tempting, playful and sensual eyes and breasts. She usually waves at me and says, “We’ll be back in a minute.”

One time, she had not come back for over an hour and I started to get worried. I walked around the hotel lobby and surrounding hallways. Finally I heard a noise so I walked closer to the sound behind a door where I discovered my wife sitting on the carpet near a couch. I saw the man’s hand underneath my wife’s skirt, rubbing in circles. I quietly left them alone, but listened from the hallway. I walked away to avoid messing up her moment. She had seen me, so she text’d me that she would be staying overnight upstairs in his suite, and not to worry. Yes, this is truly an interesting marriage—but it turns me on so much!

I never met this man, never will—but I thank him for apparently fucking my wife until she couldn’t walk and fell asleep in his room (her words).

ourhotwifefantasy
ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

This is more of a question to all our followers. If you have, how did it turn out? What was the wife’s and husband reaction? We would love to know.

Yes (male half here).  At a lifestyles party, it was part of a group experience with a couple and 3 other men in the room.  My wife told me to go enjoy myself while she chatted with other men and women outside. I watched the husband undress his wife in front of us and asked to have the bedroom door closed.  After watching two other men with her (all with condoms) , I was very ready for this—it was neat to see her husband help support her and hold her hand while he encouraged me to enter her.  Just the feeling of her warm vagina as I entered was powerful—with other men going first, it definitely brought more circulation to her crotch. Hearing her just lightly moan as I was with her made me proud, like I was doing my part for her pleasure too.  Honestly, all I remember from that experience in a darker bedroom was the smell of sex with a blonde married woman, but can’t picture her face exactly as much since it was so dark and I entered her from her back side.  I do remember her soft skin and holding on to her hips as we swayed together—this was very erotic for me!  Pure anonymous sex with a clean swinger wife in front of her husband—nothing better.

ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

This is more of a question to all our followers. If you have, how did it turn out? What was the wife’s and husband reaction? We would love to know.

Yes (male half here). At a lifestyles party, it was part of a group experience with a couple and 3 other men in the room. My wife told me to go enjoy myself while she chatted with other men and women outside. I watched the husband undress his wife in front of us and asked to have the bedroom door closed. After watching two other men with her (all with condoms) , I was very ready for this—it was neat to see her husband help support her and hold her hand while he encouraged me to enter her. Just the feeling of her warm vagina as I entered was powerful—with other men going first, it definitely brought more circulation to her crotch. Hearing her just lightly moan as I was with her made me proud, like I was doing my part for her pleasure too. Honestly, all I remember from that experience in a darker bedroom was the smell of sex with a blonde married woman, but can’t picture her face exactly as much since it was so dark and I entered her from her back side. I do remember her soft skin and holding on to her hips as we swayed together—this was very erotic for me! Pure anonymous sex with a clean swinger wife in front of her husband—nothing better.

ourhotwifefantasy
ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

I’m just waiting for the day that M days these very words. Although I don’t think she will say them, I think it will just happen if the timing and person is right.

Have hope, my wife finally chose to be with another man sexually who she was infatuated with—one who she had worked with previously.  She would not consider it just with a “guy” but I have found that if she likes someone and is also is attracted to them, it makes casual sex that much easier to happen for my wife now.  In the back of my mind, I do worry that maybe she will “fall in love” with another man but so far she just like the variety and thrill of the new experience being wanted by another man sexually.  Be careful, the man chosen must not be the possessive type or else he will continually pursue her as if he wants to be her new husband…so choose wisely.  Love can be complicated, and my wife does not want that—just the sexual adventure and freedom to pursue this.  As such, this is why an out of state swing club can be valuable as men who are there (married or single) usually are only interested in recreational sex and are not looking to give up their current lifestyle to have a “relationship” nor to live with another woman!!  You don’t need to give your real names and stay somewhat anonymous to other men you choose to play with. A great place we found was at the Scarlet Ranch near Denver—far away for our real home in another state.  Just the look at the other man’s eyes as he goes off with my wife is priceless—like a gift my wife gives to men she likes. Once in a while, she will go back to the same man for round two during the night—and chooses to be alone with him in a more private area without me (like in the tent outside).  That is when I know she has some deep sexual fantasy to live out or really wants to kiss him more sensually in private—I am ok with it now.

ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

I’m just waiting for the day that M days these very words. Although I don’t think she will say them, I think it will just happen if the timing and person is right.

Have hope, my wife finally chose to be with another man sexually who she was infatuated with—one who she had worked with previously.

She would not consider it just with a “guy” but I have found that if she likes someone and is also is attracted to them, it makes casual sex that much easier to happen for my wife now. In the back of my mind, I do worry that maybe she will “fall in love” with another man but so far she just like the variety and thrill of the new experience being wanted by another man sexually. Be careful, the man chosen must not be the possessive type or else he will continually pursue her as if he wants to be her new husband…so choose wisely. Love can be complicated, and my wife does not want that—just the sexual adventure and freedom to pursue this.

As such, this is why an out of state swing club can be valuable as men who are there (married or single) usually are only interested in recreational sex and are not looking to give up their current lifestyle to have a “relationship” nor to live with another woman!! You don’t need to give your real names and stay somewhat anonymous to other men you choose to play with. A great place we found was at the Scarlet Ranch near Denver—far away for our real home in another state. Just the look at the other man’s eyes as he goes off with my wife is priceless—like a gift my wife gives to men she likes. Once in a while, she will go back to the same man for round two during the night—and chooses to be alone with him in a more private area without me (like in the tent outside). That is when I know she has some deep sexual fantasy to live out or really wants to kiss him more sensually in private—I am ok with it now.

passion4sharing

passion4sharing:

sharing-husband:

It never ceases to amaze me on how many “normal” “next door neighbor” couples do this on a normal basis… They all learned how to enjoy their marriage to the fullest.. U would be surprised on how many Christians, next door neighbor type couples fuck other ppl for fun….

Amazing, what a lucky few men!

The wife here, I remember back to earlier this year when I was this type of woman, so relaxed to have two men so interested in me that they were willing to have intercourse in front of my husband. I was very nervous to even entertain this idea until one night my husband outright told me that he would stay by me forever, and that it would be solely for entertainment and fun—not like I would be starting another long term romantic relationship to deal with. When I was able to separate “sex” from a “married love” then I saw the pure fun in this type of sexual date with other men—some who I have never spoke to since, just for a wonderful evening while my husband looked on.

myfantasyistoshareher

myfantasyistoshareher:

If your man has had the courage to tell you that he wants you to fuck other men, stop tormenting yourself with the morality of the situation and worrying about whether he loves you, or if this is a ploy for him to have sex with other women. If he is like the other 99% of us who have had the…

So true!!! My wife used to be very conservative and shy. Then, once I told her over and over again that other men looked her in special ways, she started to change. I openly gave her my permission to have sex with other men, but she still resisted. Then, 3 years later, she went on a girls trip to Europe in June 2014. While there she met a man at a museum she felt attracted to sexually. She called me from Belgium and asked me if I was still ok with her having sex with another man. I gave her my open approval, as long as she felt safe and told me the details later. He took her to a local hotel in Brugge—I will just say that I never saw my wife so happy and full of energy when she came back home. She told me in the quiet of the night that this other man was charming and that they had a connection spiritually which helped her give herself to him. They had enjoyed a warm evening together where my wife gave herself to him with uninterrupted intercourse alone until they both fell asleep in the early hours of June 15, 2014. Life is good, and I am fascinated by my wife’s sexual confidence now! I love watching her as she flirts with men when we go out in our local city—hoping that maybe we all will go to a hotel room together. I never would have guessed that my shy wife would later become a hot wife, but dreams do come true!