elationandecstasy
I have watched my wife have this done to her by a close friend of hers after dinner in our kitchen while she was putting away the dishes.  We had a group party for the Oscars, and late in the evening as people were quieted down in the theatre room, she came upstairs to clean up.  I had not noticed that one of her invited male friends also went upstairs to help her.  As I walked near the kitchen I realized that they were talking together, and when my eyes looked around the corner, I saw his hand inside her black skirt, holding on to her rear as they stood together and talked by the sink. Just watching his hand fondle my wife’s rear end, I was very turned on.  They had no idea I was there watching, but my wife knew I would be ok with this. I had not seen this one coming since the man was very quiet and had not let on that he was interested in my wife sexually, even though he knew my wife was in an open relationship.  She leaned over and kissed him lightly, but then told him, “ok now, I need to do a few things but let’s continue this conversation later,” and I knew he was probably dying with sexual desire, as I could see his pants with a slight bulge.  I quietly went into the bathroom, and they never knew I had seen this happen—quite a turn on to me—I am entertained easily I guess…

I have watched my wife have this done to her by a close friend of hers after dinner in our kitchen while she was putting away the dishes. We had a group party for the Oscars, and late in the evening as people were quieted down in the theatre room, she came upstairs to clean up. I had not noticed that one of her invited male friends also went upstairs to help her. As I walked near the kitchen I realized that they were talking together, and when my eyes looked around the corner, I saw his hand inside her black skirt, holding on to her rear as they stood together and talked by the sink. Just watching his hand fondle my wife’s rear end, I was very turned on. They had no idea I was there watching, but my wife knew I would be ok with this. I had not seen this one coming since the man was very quiet and had not let on that he was interested in my wife sexually, even though he knew my wife was in an open relationship. She leaned over and kissed him lightly, but then told him, “ok now, I need to do a few things but let’s continue this conversation later,” and I knew he was probably dying with sexual desire, as I could see his pants with a slight bulge. I quietly went into the bathroom, and they never knew I had seen this happen—quite a turn on to me—I am entertained easily I guess…

confessionsofahornywife
confessionsofahornywife:

Amen and it’s needed now.

Soon true!  After years of marriage, my husband and I finally started to get used to the idea that sex and love are two different emotional experiences—one can enjoy each independently or at the same time with a person.  They don’t have to go together…  That is why my husband now supports me in exploring my sexuality with other men—purely as a form of recreation and fun as a married woman. There are men that I have been totally turned on with and enjoyed sex with but I never would see myself “living” with them.   I look at it like going to a stranger for a great massage and then coming home—no emotional connection, just a physical type of enjoyment. Yes, I do sometimes have a feeling of caring for that person during and after sex, but have found a way to separate the feelings of lust from the feelings of emotional caring and love like I have for my husband. Jealousy stems from one’s fear of losing something they value to another person, a form of possessiveness maybe. But really, such fear is a waste of energy.  No one can really “control” another person fully, so enjoy the moment and life takes care of the rest, believe me.  I actually love my husband more now, because he looks after me, to help me fell safe while exploring my sexual fantasies. If we both like our relationship which includes him sharing me with other select men, I don’t see the problem…

confessionsofahornywife:

Amen and it’s needed now.

Soon true! After years of marriage, my husband and I finally started to get used to the idea that sex and love are two different emotional experiences—one can enjoy each independently or at the same time with a person. They don’t have to go together… That is why my husband now supports me in exploring my sexuality with other men—purely as a form of recreation and fun as a married woman. There are men that I have been totally turned on with and enjoyed sex with but I never would see myself “living” with them. I look at it like going to a stranger for a great massage and then coming home—no emotional connection, just a physical type of enjoyment. Yes, I do sometimes have a feeling of caring for that person during and after sex, but have found a way to separate the feelings of lust from the feelings of emotional caring and love like I have for my husband. Jealousy stems from one’s fear of losing something they value to another person, a form of possessiveness maybe. But really, such fear is a waste of energy. No one can really “control” another person fully, so enjoy the moment and life takes care of the rest, believe me. I actually love my husband more now, because he looks after me, to help me fell safe while exploring my sexual fantasies. If we both like our relationship which includes him sharing me with other select men, I don’t see the problem…

openmarriageandcuckold

A question for all my female followers

openmarriageandcuckold:

If women could choose between a monogamous and a cuckold relationship, would the cuckold one be the relationship of choice for most women?

At first, when I admitted to her I was turned on by her flirting with other men, she just laughed… I started to make it more clear that I would be ok with her sleeping with other men, and she also pretended to not care about it. Then, our of the blue, she bluntly asked me if I was really serious about her having a sexual affair with another man—I had no idea she had even thought about it seriously until that night. She said, “Ok, really—have you considered what it would be like if I had sex with another man? Just think, your own wife committing adultery with another man, and you would be ok with it? Have you really thought this one out carefully? Do I want it, yes. Do I have men in mind, absolutely! Have men asked me to sleep with them, yes! However, I have been a good girl—but if you keep telling me you like me to do it, I just might fall into that temptation on my next business trip, and I just am not sure you could handle it—could you? What if I start to have feelings for the other men—what if I like the sex and passion more than you—then what? I get turned on thinking about this idea of yours but not confident about the unintended consequences. What if I get an STD? Heaven forbid, what if I get pregnant with the other man’s baby??? Let’s think this one through carefully sir!”

She then went to bed…yes, she had thought through the details, and it’s obvious she was intrigued enough about being a hot wife to explain her feelings about it… That is how it starts, and finally you will get to witness your cherished wife be lusted for by another man, just a few feet away from yourself in a bed. I cannot explain the rush of erotica that comes from sharing your own precious wife with another man for both of their sexual pleasure—it makes me almost proud in some way…

cuckoldinglifestyle

cuckoldinglifestyle:

Q: My wife seems too conservative and I am afraid to bring up the subject of cuckolding with her. What do you suggest?

Caroline: Be open and honest with her. Begin your new intimacy with her by sharing your desire. It may be her desire as well. Some of the most dedicated cuckold couples don’t look as though they would engage in the lifestyle. Life doesn’t get better by being afraid to improve it.

http://www.amazon.com/Cuckolding-Questions-Revealing-intimate-lifestyles/dp/1491039574

I read some books about how to help my wife see the value of enjoying sex with other men. Over a period of six months, it slowly helped her see that this could be possible, but only after she felt that she was sexually attractive to other men. I helped this happen by taking her to local dance clubs, buying her more erotic outfits and introduced her to many men I met at the club who I knew said to me they thought my wife was hot. I sometimes brought men to our table, introduced them, and magically their personality seemed to lower her guard and let her feel comfortable to dance with them alone. Over a period of a few months, she became more open to their intimate teasing and touching. I would welcome them over to dance with me and my wife, then put my wife between us. Just with my eye contact, the other men knew I was encouraging them to take it further with my wife. After the club, I asked one of the men to a restaurant for a late night snack with us…and it led to him rubbing her feet. I made up some excuse to invite him over to our house to help advise me about something (home repair, landscaping, remodeling, etc.) and then having him rub my wife’s back on the couch…it more easily led to more intimate touching on her thighs…and the rest of the fun that comes with this =).

Dancing is basically role playing how it would be in bed with them but standing up—it helps my wife almost melt in their arms and reduce her fears of being intimate with another man. Once I see my wife kiss another man on the dance floor, I know it might lead to going home with this man inside my wife.

wifewatching3wifesharing

Question.

myhotwifedreams:

For the guys living the dream. Do you find that your wife is naughtier with another man? Like maybe she has something to prove or she wants to be sure she surpasses his expectations? I am curious.

Absolutely, she seems to not care about being as proper it seems—she gives herself up so freely — it’s probably because the other men she enjoys being shared with are more demanding—assertive. Until March, she never had tried anal sex since she said it hurt. However, with the skill and savy of a stronger man, he convinced her to try and she believed him. She looked nervous at first, but he knew how to do it, he was experienced. So, I was amazed to see her enjoy anal sex (with protection if course) while spooning with a muscular German man at a swing club in Denver—very cool.

naughty-couples
My wife regularly kisses on the lips the husband of her girlfriend when she greets him or when he leaves…  This last Sunday, we were with this couple all afternoon just for a barbecue at their house. When we were leaving, we walked out their door when my wife said she needed to tell the other man something before she forgot.   After a minute, I walked back inside their open door and saw my wife fully hugging him while they kissed very sensually in front of his wife, not just a peck…  I suddenly put 2 and 2 together realizing that my wife had already enjoyed some erotic experience with this couple when I had been out of town on business.  I knew it wasn’t just a tease since I saw his hand going down inside my wife’s pants on her bare butt as he held her tight and made out with her in front of me and his wife. I looked over to see his wife’s reaction, and she just smiled and said they when they went up to their cabin the past weekend (when I was out of town) that they developed a special relationship together.  The other wife said, “what can you do, it was meant to be I guess.”  My wife looked very happy and smiled when she looked back to her girlfriend, “can I tell him?”  My wife came over and hugged me when she said that the three of them had shared something special at their cabin and that I shouldn’t feel worried about it.  “I had sex with him in their bed at their cabin, is that ok?”  I looked at him and his eyes were a little nervous but obviously had an erection already in his jeans. “I feel a special bond with him also, like you but different.”  I couldn’t have been more turned on!!

My wife regularly kisses on the lips the husband of her girlfriend when she greets him or when he leaves… This last Sunday, we were with this couple all afternoon just for a barbecue at their house. When we were leaving, we walked out their door when my wife said she needed to tell the other man something before she forgot. After a minute, I walked back inside their open door and saw my wife fully hugging him while they kissed very sensually in front of his wife, not just a peck…
I suddenly put 2 and 2 together realizing that my wife had already enjoyed some erotic experience with this couple when I had been out of town on business. I knew it wasn’t just a tease since I saw his hand going down inside my wife’s pants on her bare butt as he held her tight and made out with her in front of me and his wife.

I looked over to see his wife’s reaction, and she just smiled and said they when they went up to their cabin the past weekend (when I was out of town) that they developed a special relationship together. The other wife said, “what can you do, it was meant to be I guess.” My wife looked very happy and smiled when she looked back to her girlfriend, “can I tell him?” My wife came over and hugged me when she said that the three of them had shared something special at their cabin and that I shouldn’t feel worried about it. “I had sex with him in their bed at their cabin, is that ok?” I looked at him and his eyes were a little nervous but obviously had an erection already in his jeans. “I feel a special bond with him also, like you but different.” I couldn’t have been more turned on!!

ourhotwifefantasy
ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

You’ve never been boring, but this is so much more exciting than anything we’ve ever done.

This picture is so real to me as a husband with a very flirty wife.  When she is in the same room as a man she is attracted to, I can tell quickly and enjoy seeing her find ways to be near him, laugh with him, then want to take him to another area to talk (outside in the dark or a coat closet, etc.).  As soon as I see them walking away together, I know what my wife’s intentions are and how easily the man will give in with her “magic” she has with her tempting, playful and sensual eyes and breasts.  She usually waves at me and says, “We’ll be back in a minute.”  One time, she had not come back for over an hour and I started to get worried.  I walked around the hotel lobby and surrounding hallways.  Finally I heard a noise so I walked closer to the sound behind a door where I discovered my wife sitting on the carpet near a couch.  I saw the man’s hand underneath my wife’s skirt, rubbing in circles. I quietly left them alone, but listened from the hallway.   I walked away to avoid messing up her moment.   She had seen me, so she text’d me that she would be staying overnight upstairs in his suite, and not to worry.  Yes, this is truly an interesting marriage—but it turns me on so much!I never met this man, never will—but I thank him for apparently fucking my wife until she couldn’t walk and fell asleep in his room (her words).

ourhotwifefantasy:

Ourhotwifefantasy

You’ve never been boring, but this is so much more exciting than anything we’ve ever done.

This picture is so real to me as a husband with a very flirty wife. When she is in the same room as a man she is attracted to, I can tell quickly and enjoy seeing her find ways to be near him, laugh with him, then want to take him to another area to talk (outside in the dark or a coat closet, etc.). As soon as I see them walking away together, I know what my wife’s intentions are and how easily the man will give in with her “magic” she has with her tempting, playful and sensual eyes and breasts. She usually waves at me and says, “We’ll be back in a minute.”

One time, she had not come back for over an hour and I started to get worried. I walked around the hotel lobby and surrounding hallways. Finally I heard a noise so I walked closer to the sound behind a door where I discovered my wife sitting on the carpet near a couch. I saw the man’s hand underneath my wife’s skirt, rubbing in circles. I quietly left them alone, but listened from the hallway. I walked away to avoid messing up her moment. She had seen me, so she text’d me that she would be staying overnight upstairs in his suite, and not to worry. Yes, this is truly an interesting marriage—but it turns me on so much!

I never met this man, never will—but I thank him for apparently fucking my wife until she couldn’t walk and fell asleep in his room (her words).